Tuesday, December 01, 2015

Berlin for Thanksgiving

On Thanksgiving day, we planned to drive to Berlin for a quick visit. We celebrated Thanksgiving a week early with turkey dinner and all of that, and took the van in for a tune up and oil change. However, the garage had some delays on getting to work on our car and the day we planned to leave on our trip our van was STILL not done. Well, I blew a gasket. I called and screamed and yelled and threatened and was quite ugly about it and I am not proud of that, but an hour or so later the garage delivered the van to our house. We will not be using this mechanic again. Anyway, by the time we made it to Berlin it was time to put the kids to bed so I planned an action packed day for Friday.

We rented an apartment off of airbnb again. It had three bedrooms and pretty basic furnishings, but was very convenient to a bus line that took us right down to the sights we wanted most to see.  We started the morning at Checkpoint Charlie. 

This was the main access point most people passed through when visiting East Berlin between 1961 and 1990.

Souvenir stands near here sell Communist kitsch and mementos.  We couldn't resist a nesting doll set starting with Lenin, then Stalin, and and so on.

Crossing into the East Berlin area, we walked down Friedrichstrasse, which is Berlin's version of Fifth Avenue. High end shops, luxury brands, and this awesome Audi showroom. Toby loved this racing game.

And Rob may not be a motorhead, but he really enjoyed looking at these impressive cars and motorcycles.

After the Audi showroom, we turned left onto Unter den Linden and walked to the Brandenburg Gate. It suffered considerable damage during WWII, and was inaccessible while the Wall stood, but has since been fully restored.  In this photo, the French Embassy is to the right and the US Embassy is to the left. The French embassy's sidewalk was covered in flowers, candles, and notes, in the wake of the recent attacks in Paris. 

After passing under the gate, we turned left to the Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe. This memorial is a big deal. First of all, Germany admitted to a crime in naming the memorial, and second of all they placed it in front of their government offices. It doesn't look like much, and at first I was underwhelmed.  But then we began to walk between the stones of varying heights and I started to lose sight of the kids, which made me feel anxious as they disappeared and reappeared further away.  Also, it is sunken down somewhat and the ground is uneven, and no matter which way you try to go out, you must walk up hill.  It is pretty striking.

Across the way is the Reichstag building. This is like Germany's Parliament building.  You can make an appointment to tour inside and view the government debates... but ya know, four little kids.

At this point we had crossed the former Berlin Wall at least twice.  A brick line and these markers let you know all throughout the city.

Our next stop was the Berlin Wall memorial.  This is a small remaining stretch of the wall, which was actually two walls with a no man's land down the middle.  Guards in towers along the way could shoot anyone trying to cross the wall.

Inside the visitor's center, the children sat down to draw pictures and hang them up.  Both Charlotte and Toby's pictures focused on the idea that we should have a world without walls. Jakey drew a pirate train.

At the wall.

Broken shards.

And a memorial to those who died in their attempts to escape East Berlin.  The anniversary of the wall coming down was just a few days before our visit, hence the white roses.

The world is crazy.  It just makes me want to hold on to the ones that I love.

After the Wall Memorial it was time for some fun.  We scrambled onto a bus to the Berlin Zoo. We only had a few hours of daylight left, so we skipped a sit down lunch and fed the kids a few McNuggets literally as we walked to the zoo. Berlin Zoo was awesome, and I wish we had more time there, but we made the most of the time we had.  This baby hippo kept bobbing up and down like she was giving Toby kisses.

Charlotte got to see her first real live polar bear.

By luck, we even caught part of the seal show and the feeding of the lions and other big cats.

This wagon gave Jake's feet a break, and Rob's back a break from carrying Amelie all day. Also, I should really note that Rob had broken his big toe just about a week earlier, but he toughed it out.

Just before dark (when the Zoo closes) we scurried over to the Kaiser Wilhelm Memorial Church.  This church suffered serious damages from the bombings of Berlin in WWII, but has been left standing as a memorial.  The new church is that modern thing in the foreground.

In the church square was a large Christmas market.  So we sat down as the sun set and drank some hot Kinderpunsch (non-alcoholic juice drink; the shot glasses on the table are not ours) and ate lots of yummy brats, pommes, kale and potatoes, crepes with Nutella, and pierogies. Everyone was completely exhausted from our marathon day of sightseeing.

After dinner and a stroll around the market, we hobbled back to the bus and to our apartment, and all slept like rocks.  We needed to head home on Saturday, but first visited the Deutches Historisches Museum.  (German History.) I didn't take any pictures because my camera battery was dead, but the museum was really interesting, although not very child friendly at all.  The kids did like the medieval armor, weapons, and cannons.  And Charlotte liked the fancy portraits and old clothing, but so much of it was over their heads, so our visit was brief. It did make me think about how history is written by the victors though, and it was interesting to view German history from their perspective and to consider how it has shaped their national identity and current political policies. After the museum we stopped in two very fancy chocolate shops and stocked up, and one last tourist shop and let the kids choose their souvenirs.  Then we hit the road back to home. We wanted to be home before the kids' bedtime so Rob set a new driving record in our old minivan, getting it up to 105 mph at one point, and getting us home in just 4 hours and 40 minutes.  We like the Autobahns very much.  (And I guess it is a good thing we had the van checked over before our tip.)

Sunday, November 29, 2015

November in a Nutshell

November was supposed to be a quieter, calmer month. Ha!

Charlotte's first (only?) cheer season came to an end with a meet and greet with the Kansas City Chiefs' cheerleaders.

Charlotte loved cheerleading, but boy, it's kind of rough on this mom. It isn't just that cheerleaders freak me out on a personal level, it is all of the layers of social commitments that go along with cheer... sleepovers, parties, extra practices, making banners for the football players to run through... cheerleading is not a sport, it is a lifestyle, and I'm not sure we are cut out for it. 

Daddy was Charlotte's date for the cheer banquet.  He looks super excited, huh? But he was a good sport and they had a memorable evening out together.

Just a few nights later was the Laternenfest (that isn't spelled wrong) at Jakey's Kindergarten. This is a celebration for St. Martin's day when the German children carry lanterns they have made on a nighttime procession while singing "lantern songs." Toby made one in his German immersion classroom as well and knew a few of the songs.

Nearby in the Lautertal area, there is a natural park called Felsenmeer, and somehow we had never gone there before.  We took the kids, and the new dog, on a morning hike one Saturday in November.

The Felsenmeer is this valley filled with enormous granite boulders.  The kids all loved climbing on them and around them. 

It was a beautiful sunny Autumn day.

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This is how Bingo looks when he is smiling.  Did I mention we got a dog in November?  He thought the Felsenmeer was awesome.

The Romans used this stone valley as a quarry for some of their building projects back in the day.  But all the kiddos see is a playground.

 Also in November, I felt a little sick one day.  Lucky for me, I have a house full of nurses. They brought me toast, loaded the dishwasher, and made me cards and paper flowers.  I felt the love.

Also, I had to just take a picture of this drawing Jakey made. It is hard to see from here, but it is a picture of two astronauts, and a few spiders, getting ready to go on a space shuttle. It is really the first time Jake sat down and focused on drawing an idea of his own from his imagination that had fully developed people with arms, legs, bodies, clothing, etc. It was fantastic.

Halloween 2015

Before Halloween we went to a local farmer's stand and picked out pumpkins.
They had an awesome assortment of pumpkins and gourds and the kids loved checking out all the varieties...




In the end though, three of the kiddos chose standard Jack-o-lantern pumpkins.

Toby decided to try out something a bit more exotic.

They turned out cute.  We hadn't bothered to carve pumpkins the past two Halloweens, with Amelie's birth, and then our move to Germany, so now we finally had kids old enough to gut their own gourds!

Even Toby's gourd turned out cute, although the insides were white and kind of spongy and weird.
Our Church held a trunk or treat and Halloween party. I had the privilege of organizing the shindig, and it all worked out pretty well, with a chili cook-off and lots of cute little kiddos- around 150-180 actually.

Amelie was Snow White.

Toby was a BYU football player.  We discussed a few specific players to dress up as- Steve Young? Tatum Mangum? But in the end, he decided to be himself in the future.

Jakey was Thor.

And Charlotte was a woodland fairy.

Thursday, October 29, 2015

Charlotte's 9th Birthday!

Look!  I have a cheerleader! We got off to a pretty rocky start (she cried through the entire first practice,) but thanks to a fabulously kind coach and friendly little girls she has grown to love her little cheer squad.

Charlotte is the youngest girl on the squad of 9-11 year olds. She likes being a "flyer" at the top of the pyramids.  I have been surprised how many extra social activities are involved in cheerleading... sleep overs, banner making, pizza parties. I don't know if I am cut out to be a cheer mom, but I will support her the best that I can.

Charlotte asked for a polar bear cake this year.  It is actually amazing to me that we made it nine years without making one!  We also took the kids to Halli Galli, a Kinderspielwelt (indoor play bounce house place) that we also went to when Charlotte turned four years old. For her birthday gift, she got the game Hedbanz and we all played together... with Jake accidentally giving away everyone's cards, except for Rob who took the longest to guess his.  (For example, he would stare at my head and then ask me, "am I a strawberry?" and Charlotte and Toby would yell, "Jacob!" So I clearly knew that I was a strawberry.) There was a lot of giggling and it was a very fun day for the kiddos.

We also got this great big puppy right around the time of Charlotte's birthday. She loves Bingo and is the first to get down on the floor to pet and cuddle with the smelly dog after school each day. When she sat down to do her homework the other day he tried to climb into her lap to check her work.  Or eat it for her.  He's super helpful like that.  (Not.) 

For some reason my mom always said that nine was her favorite age.  I look forward to this year with my nine year old Charlotte girl.  Charlotte is sweet, sensitive, smart, and sassy. Amelie has recently moved into a toddler bed in Charlotte's room (at Charlotte's request) and they are enjoying their sister time having tea parties, reading books, and caring for a menagerie of stuffed animals.  Charlotte says, "I prayed and prayed to have a sister to share my room with, and now my wish has come true." I mean.... how adorable is that?!?!  We love you Charlotte.

Charlotte's birthday interview:
(20 questions style)
1. What is your favorite color? Pink
2. What is your favorite toy? Baby Polar
3. What is your favorite fruit? Apricots
4. What is your favorite tv show? Pokemon
5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Macaroni and cheese
6. What is your favorite outfit? "I don't know... I just wear everyday outfits, I don't have a favorite or anything."
7. What is your favorite game? Minecraft and Ticket to Ride
8. What is your favorite snack? Chocolate covered raisins
9. What is your favorite animal? A polar bear
10. What is your favorite song? My Favorite Things (from the Sound of Music)
11. What is your favorite book? Harry Potter (yes, she finished it, and got the second one for her birthday and read it all immediately.)
12. Who is your best friend? Ciara and Christie
13. What do you want to be when you grow up? "That's hard... I want to be a mom, and an artist, author, and illustrator."
14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? "Ride my bike, because I like how the wind rushes on my face and it's all breezy when I go fast."
15. What are you really good at?"Actually I want YOU to answer that one."  Okay, Charlotte is a great artist, friend, reader, storyteller, big sister, and daughter.
16. What is a food that you hate? "Everything in my life is okay and then my favorite things.  I don't really hate anything."
17. What do you like to do with Mom? Bake cookies
18. What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Pancakes
19. What is your favorite dinner? Pasta Primavera
20. What makes you happy? Making other people happy.  :)

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

First days for Jake (also belated)

October was a big month for Jake! 

Jakey started German Kindergarten at the beginning of the month. He was assigned to the Mause Gruppe (Mouse Group) and his teacher gave him a tote bag with his name on it when she came to do her home visit. On his first day we just went for an hour and Amelie and I stayed with him.  The next day he went for an hour solo.  And then we slowly increased his time there each day until he was finally going for the whole morning.  (It took more than two weeks.) He was totally fine to stay right off the bat, but the school has their process and will not be deterred from following it!

Jake likes the playground and the Lego room the best. There is an art room, a Kinder gym, a nap time room, a ball pit, play kitchen, grocery store, dollhouse, and even a room with REAL tools to construct projects.  It is a really nice little Kita. (German abbreviation for Kindertagesstatte.)

Jake has already made a buddy... who also speaks no German.  He is from Morocco.  In Jake's class alone they have German, English, Arabic, Russian, and French speakers.  The teachers speak only German to them.  As one little boy informed me, "We are in Germany, so you must speak German."  Working on it, dude.

Jake also played another season of Bambino soccer.  He was one of the bigger kids this time around, being an older and wiser four year old.  He loves being part of a team, but I think water breaks and chatting with the coach are still his favorite parts of the activity.

Saturday, October 17, 2015

Wednesday, October 07, 2015

Amelie turned 2!

While we were in Colmar, France we celebrated Amelie's second birthday. Because, really, when your name is Amelie you should celebrate as many birthdays in France as you possibly can, right?

For dinner we had the bread and cheese we bought in Strasbourg, along with some local grapes and raspberries at this (third floor walk up, loft) apartment we rented for the night. Then we sang Happy Birthday and enjoyed cupcakes from a French cafe. The kids had Kinder Schokolade flavored ones and the grown-ups had Chocolate Pistachio ones.  (The candle looks like an 8 from the back, but really is a 2, I promise.)

Amelie loved being sung to, and making a mess eating her cupcake "all up."  
She has turned into quite the little firecracker.  She talks a LOT, and very well. For example, she doesn't just say "no," she says "No, I don't!" We also hear a lot of "You stop it, Mom" when I tell her not to do something. And the meltdowns and tantrums are impressively dramatic over even the smallest things right now. 
Grandma gave her a new book, which she loves, and the kiddos picked out a baby doll for her that drinks from a bottle and then wets her diaper.  The first time this happened, Ami completely flipped out!  She could not believe the diaper was really wet and that we weren't just pretending. She takes very good care of her baby- rocking it, feeding it, changing it, and carrying it with her all around the house.

We adore this strong-willed little munchkin.  She loves kitty cats and puppies. She does her best to copy Charlotte's every move. She can not get enough of being read to, even though she has most of her board books memorized. She loves going places in the stroller or backpack. Amelie is completely convinced that she is an adult and that everyone must value and respect her contributions to the conversation. And yet, when I tell her what a big girl she has become, she still crawls into my lap and says,  "I'm baby, Mom." Yup... and she always will be our baby.