Sunday, July 23, 2017

The Great American Road Trip: the Mormon Trail

After about 10 days on the East coast, it was time to head out on part two of our US trip: the road trip.

We loaded up the rented minivan and headed for our first stop in Kirtland, OH. Neither Rob nor I had ever visited some of our Church's most historical sites, so we planned to do that on this portion of our trip.

Beginning in 1831, Mormons began to gather in the little town of Kirtland, OH.  In 1833, Joseph Smith received revelation that the Saints should build a temple. The temple was completed in 1836.  It is different from other LDS temples in design and purpose and was mainly used for worship services. By 1838, Joseph Smith was forced to flee from Kirtland.  There was a division in the Church membership with many moving on to Nauvoo, IL with the prophet, and some staying behind. The temple was used for other purposes and is now owned by The Community of Christ (formerly known as the Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints which split from the main Church after the death of Joseph Smith.)

Anyway, we walked around the temple grounds briefly and perused the bookshop. Charlotte was really tan after our time at the shore!

We then headed over to the historical sites owned by our Church.  We visited the Whitney store, but had limited time, so we weren't able to visit all of the historical buildings there.

Newel K. Whitney was an early convert to the Church.  He was a business man and not only ran this store in Kirtland, but also served as the first Bishop of the Church, and housed the prophet, Joseph Smith, and his family in rooms above the store while they lived in Kirtland.  The storefront in outfitted as it would have been in the 1830s.

The upstairs living area has some original pieces of furniture and some period pieces. The upstairs rooms were also used to hold the School of the Prophets, and are where Joseph Smith received the revelation that we now refer to as the Word of Wisdom.   So this is a pretty significant place in our Church's history.

After just a few hours in Kirtland, it was time to head to Dover, OH to visit Rob's cousin Nathan.  His family was away visiting his in-laws, but he graciously agreed to entertain us over the 4th of July.  The kids were fascinated by his pet albino corn snake.

Rob and Nathan were roommates in college, and I'm glad they got to spend some time catching up and playing board games.  We went for a short walk in the woods to a super cute waterfall, the kids played video games, and we enjoyed a cookout together.

Nathan also introduced us to using Reese's peanut butter cups in S'mores.  Life will never be the same again.

The next day we continued our church history tour to Carthage, IL.  After leaving Kirtland, the early Mormons moved on to Nauvoo, IL. They built a city and a temple there (which we would visit the next day) but trouble was not far off.  In 1844 Joseph Smith was arrested and held in Carthage Jail (pictured behind the statue of Joseph and Hyrum Smith above.) Hyrum went with his brother, as well as two other men, John Taylor and Willard Richards.  By all accounts, the jailer was a good and honest man.  When an angry mob came to kill Joseph he did his best to protect his prisoners, even moving them to his own quarters. In the end though, both Joseph and Hyrum were shot and killed.  John Taylor was severely injured, but later became the third prophet of our Church. Most people have at least heard of Joseph Smith, but I really love Hyrum Smith too. He was Joseph's older brother and believed him and stood by him through thick and thin. 

We stayed at an airbnb in Carthage and drove the next day to see the Church History sites in Nauvoo.  I had no idea that there was so much to see and do in Nauvoo!  We could have spent 3 days there easily, and everything was free and geared toward families. Our first stop was the Visitor's Center, where we picked up a map and free tickets for a wagon ride and a children's theater performance later in the day.  Then we went to this building, the Family Living Cente.  Here we saw how yarn was spun, and other important commodities, like bread, candles, barrels, and rope, were made.

The kids made a "family rope" with 6 strands of twine. They learned that like a family, a rope's strands are stronger together than they are individually.

Rob and I enjoyed seeing the band wagon traveling around town playing old tunes.  We also stopped in the Scovil Bakery for a cookie, went to the Brickyard to learn how bricks were made and got our souvenir Nauvoo brick, visited the Printing Office, and Brigham Young's home. We also watched "Just Plain Anna Amanda" at the Nauvoo Cultural Hall, which the kids enjoyed.

 At the Blacksmith Shop, we saw how horseshoes and oxen shoes were made and received a souvenir horseshoe and "prairie diamond" rings.  The kids absolutely loved getting all of these trinkets.  (Now I have to figure out what to do with them.)

We next took a tour of the historical sites owned by the Community of Christ: The Joseph Smith Home, Mansion House, and Red Brick Store.  We were getting pretty tired by this point and I didn't take any photos.  It was in the 90s out and Rob and I were taking turns carrying Amelie around.  When we left the Joseph Smith house, we each thought that the other had her, and long story short, she ended up locked in the Joseph Smith house. We realized it pretty quickly (across the street) and Rob ran back with our guide to retrieve our screaming 3 year old.  She was fine though, as evidenced by this picture taken playing dress up 30 minutes later.

Jake didn't want to dress-up, but he put on a pioneer boy hat for me.

This was back at the LDS side of the sites, where we finished our time in Old Nauvoo with some old time fun and games.

At this point we had thoroughly exhausted the kids and had only fed them a few snacks as there was nowhere to really buy food in Historic Nauvoo.  We drove up the hill to modern day Nauvoo and walked around the Nauvoo temple grounds.

Too hot and tired for a selfie, but we tried anyway!

The early Saints began building the Nauvoo temple in 1841.It was only halfway completed when Joseph Smith was killed in 1844. Brigham Young encouraged the Saints to complete the temple, even as they prepared to flee Nauvoo.  The temple was completed in 1846 and was only fully used for 3 months before the final Saints left Nauvoo to continue West. The Church attempted to sell the structure, but it was gutted by a fire set by an arsonist in 1848 and then completely destroyed by a tornado in 1850.  In 1937 the Church was able to reacquire the original site, and in 2000 announced the temple would be rebuilt on the original spot.  The new Nauvoo temple was completed in 2002.

It looks over the Mississippi River and this statue of Joseph and Hyrum Smith. 
I am so glad that we got to visit these special places and share some of the history of our Church with our little ones.  I truly believe that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God and that he translated the Book of Mormon. Everything that we saw and learned in Kirtland and Nauvoo only strengthened my faith.  I don't worship Joseph Smith, but I do recognize the incredible sacrifices he and his family made in order to restore the Gospel of Jesus Christ and to establish the Church.

Saturday, July 22, 2017

The Jersey Shore

Years ago we rented out a beach house at the Outer Banks and invited my family and Rob's family to join us there and hang out for a week. It was a lot of fun, but not possible for everyone. This visit we decided to spend time with our families separately and make it a little more convenient if possible. So my family: my Dad, his wife Linda, and my siblings Pam, Melissa, and Dan, and all of the kiddos headed to Point Pleasant, NJ. We each booked our own rooms near each other and spent a few days in the sand and sun.
Dinner on the boardwalk with everybody the first night at the shore.

Charlotte wanted a ballgown made of sand.  Rob buried her up to her waist and Amelie decorated her skirt.

Group photo! 
(only missing Leah- it's very challenging to get everyone together all at once.)

One day was overcast and cooler, but we didn't mind having the beach to ourselves.

Jake played so hard that he fell fast asleep waiting for his dinner on night two.

Grandma Linda and Aunt Pam and Uncle Mark took our kids to the aquarium and out for dinner one evening so that Rob and I could enjoy an evening out on our own.

They liked the touching pool, eating waffles and ice cream, and just generally being spoiled.  And Rob and I enjoyed Jersey Mike's, Barnes & Noble's, and a walk on the beach without kids.

Amelie buried in the sand.  This kid LOVES the sand.  She would roll around in it and be completely covered all day long.

Digging holes was a popular activity for the dads and bigger boys.  Their deepest hole was about 5 feet deep and 4 feet across.  They were very sad to find it had been filled in when we came out to the beach the next morning.

Big kids love playing in the sea and sand too.

Amelie and Grandma Linda both seemed to enjoy nap time cuddles. 

Spending time with my sisters at sunset.

Family beach selfie!


Our last night at the shore we decided to do all the boardwalk things.  The kids each got to ride a couple of rides.

Then we hung out with Pop-Pop and had some dinner.

Corn dog for the win.

We even spent some time in the arcade playing games and earning tickets for little bits of plastic that were lost or destroyed within days.  That is totally outside the norm for us, but it's all part of the experience, right?

Finally, we walked down to the water's edge and watched the fireworks.  It was a lot of fun, though I think when it was all said and done, Rob and I prefer the Outer Banks peace and privacy to the hustle and bustle of the Boardwalk scene.  The main point though was to get everyone together and make some memories- and that we did for sure!

Sweet Home Pennsylvania

It had been 3 years since we had visited the USA, and it was time to re-acquaint ourselves with the homeland. A few days after school let out for the Summer we took off to visit my family in the Poconos.


We stayed with my sister Pam and I enjoyed sharing my "hometown" with the kiddos.  We went to Becky's Drive-in and saw Cars 3. In this picture, Toby, Pam, Jake, Charlotte, Amelie, and Ben.
The kids loved sitting with cousin Ben (my great nephew) in the back of Uncle Mark's truck and eating pizza and movie treats.

Pam and Mark live on a farm with beautiful views. The kids liked visiting the farm animals, going to the diner, shopping, and going to Church with family. We were also able to attend a 10th anniversary party for a friend of mine from high school.


Pam's friend Lisa, at Northridge Equestrian, allowed us to come enjoy the horses.  The kids all helped to brush down Hank and Jay. Hank liked it so much that he fell asleep and was drooling, which the kids thought was hilarious.

Toby bonded with Jay right away.


He was the first to want to ride him.  It was raining outside, but we were able to use their beautiful indoor riding facility.

Charlotte liked Hank's beautiful black coat. It's too hard to see in these photos, but the front of his mane was braided, which she liked as well.

Amelie was in love at first sight. She had no fear and was the only kid to ride both horses.

Jake was a little bit nervous, and wasn't sure he wanted to do it.  But in the end, he overcame his fear and was really proud of himself.

And last but not least, Rob took a turn.  He had never been on a horse before, but Jay was the perfect gentle giant horse for Rob to ride around the ring.  I just think he needs a cowboy hat and boots now. After our rides, we watched Hank and Jay practice for an upcoming show and then helped to water all of the horses. It was a great learning experience for all of us.

We also spent an afternoon hanging out at my sister Melissa's house. Charlotte and Toby tried to set up their own American Ninja challenges

The kids loved swimming with cousin Max and eating popsicles. We also learned that Cheetos left in the sun in a metal bowl will catch on fire. However, I didn't take a picture of that!

They also spent some time in Max and Eddie's Jr. Man Cave playing air hockey and video games.

The best part of our time in PA was just spending time with family and building those relationships and making memories together.